A Visit through Fresh Eyes
Learning in Action at Oak Grove
This Spring, we had the pleasure of welcoming two longtime friends of Oak Grove to campus for several days. Their visit offered a meaningful opportunity to experience the school through fresh eyes and to reflect on the learning unfolding each day across our classrooms.
John Marchi has supported the school for decades and has been a quiet and steady advocate of Oak Grove’s mission. He, along with his partner, Toni Arena, joined us for a visit that offered an opportunity not only to reconnect but also to experience the school in action.
What has always been meaningful about John’s relationship with Oak Grove is not only his generosity, but his deep interest in the life of the school. He follows closely what is happening here and cares deeply about the experiences of the students and the unfolding of the school’s work. Their time on campus provided a chance to see that work firsthand, across all divisions.
What stood out most during their visit was not only what students are learning, but how they are learning, through dialogue, reflection, and genuine inquiry into complex and often deeply human questions.
In sixth grade, students engaged in a literary circle exploring the question, Does race matter? Grounded in novels in verse such as Other Words for Home, Brown Girl Dreaming, and Inside Out and Back Again, students entered conversations around identity, belonging, and prejudice. What was especially striking was the care with which students listened to one another and their willingness to sit with complexity, without rushing toward simple or predetermined answers.
In fourth grade, students examined how external influences shape their choices and sense of self. Through discussions of media, culture, and the role of adults, they explored how preferences around clothing, music, and activities are formed. At the heart of the inquiry was a deeper question: can we recognize the difference between choices shaped from within and those influenced from outside? Students were invited into an early awareness of how attention and perception influence decision-making.
In our early childhood classrooms, learning unfolded through connection and joy. In Preschool and Kindergarten, students gathered with teachers and families for a lively community sing-along, a reminder that learning begins in relationship. Songs such as The Lucky Song, inspired by our resident red-tailed hawk, reflect the deep connection students develop with the natural world and their environment from an early age.
In an elementary music class, students engaged in an Orff Shulwerk-based lesson exploring rhythm and musical literacy through movement, voice, and instruments. Learning was embodied, collaborative, and joyful, with students demonstrating both technical skill and a deep, lived understanding of musical patterns.
Our high school students offered equally rich moments of reflection. Seniors shared their experiences at Oak Grove and spoke about how their education has shaped their perspectives, values, and sense of self as they prepare for life beyond campus. In the East–West Psychology class, students explored questions of the inner world, engaging thoughtfully with their own thinking, emotions, and awareness.
In the Reflective Classroom, third graders participated in a meditation exploring coexistence and the relationship between their inner lives and the natural world. Using simple symbolic objects as anchors, students were invited to consider the connection between their thoughts and feelings and the wider world around them.
In seventh grade humanities, students engaged in a thoughtful exploration of neuroethics, connecting literature and current scientific developments. Through discussions sparked by Flowers for Algernon and contemporary articles, they considered questions about identity, autonomy, and the ethics of altering the human mind. Students practiced holding multiple perspectives with care, reflecting a deepening capacity for thoughtful dialogue.
Across all of these classrooms, a shared thread was evident. Students were not simply acquiring information; they were engaged in the art of learning, observing, questioning, listening, and making meaning. The classroom becomes a space not of conclusions, but of living inquiry.
Moments like these reflect what is at the heart of an Oak Grove education. Learning here is an ongoing exploration of self and world, where students are invited to think deeply, relate thoughtfully, and engage with life as it unfolds.
We are also deeply grateful to the many students and parenting adults who took time to warmly greet our visitors, and those moments of connection were sincerely appreciated. The openness and kindness that define this community were felt throughout the visit.
After the visit, John shared, “I had often sought to help make the world a better place. That seeking was fulfilled with my association with Oak Grove.”
“I had often sought to help make the world a better place. That seeking was fulfilled with my association with Oak Grove.”